communication tools for successful relationships

What do these communication tools do? These are a few of the research based tools available for better marriage. Read testimonials here http://relationshipgardening.weebly.com/reviews.html

Connection Cue Card #1 Starts and Repairs

$3.50

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CUTTING EDGE COMMUNICATION tool! #1 in a series of innovative rack card sized sample sentences of how to

make a request or complaint successfully without criticism (side 1)
keep things calm enough to stay in the conversation without shutting down or freaking out (side 2)

Based on the science of love relationships, this tool for growing love is a great way to convey that your relationship is very important to you, and makes a great gift for others you also want to see on the long lasting happy marriage path!

Each person needs one, so order 2 for two people.

Connection Cue Card #2 Conversations from the Heart

$3.50

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CUTTING EDGE communication tool series. #2 is in hot demand for couples who want conversations to go deeper, with ways of following your heart and putting it into action! Don't be stuck in anger and frustration, or avoidance anymore!

Listener side 1 gives sample sentences for initiating conversation AND taking it deeper to make you a listener rock star!
Speaker side 2 gives sample sentences of how to express hidden desires behind common feelings (sadness, anger, disappointment).

This handy rack card also includes guidance on each side about how to listen and talk well, bringing intentional healthy communication to your discussions.

Based on the science of love relationships, this tool for growing love is a great way to convey that your partner is very important to you, and makes a great gift for others you also want to see on the long lasting happy marriage path!

Each person needs one to use at the same time so for a couple's use, order two!

Connection Cue Card #1 Starts and Repairs

$3.50

$3.50

Connection Cue Card #2 Conversations from the Heart

$3.50

$3.50

Connection Cue Card #3 Showing Curiosity

$3.50

$3.50

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3. What moves you? Physical activity strategies in older women
Marily Oppezzo, Lauren Wegner, James J Gross,
Daniel L Schwartz, Tessa Eckley, Abby C King, Sally Mackey, Marcia L Stefanick
First Published May 18, 2021 Research Article Find in PubMed
https://doi.org/10.1177/13591053211014593

Looking for a Marriage Counselor who studies and applies awareness of intersectionality, and the importance of examining her own hidden bias?
Shannon is a trained and active Race Talks Facilitator in Portland, Oregon, intentionally under (completed) training (100s+ hours) and ongoing mentorship by Donna Maxey (retired) and Shaina Pomerantz, JD, MSOL.

Shannon Batts, Licensed Professional Counselor of Portland, Oregon, lic# C2379, and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist for Californians, lic# MFT 34477, is Marriage Friendly, with better than neutrality toward the outcome of your life long love commitment. Shannon Batts is a Portland, Oregon counselor, with advanced skills, education and training in assisting couples (extremely rare among counselors). Lesbian, gay, trans, mixed gender identity, questioning gender, nonbinary, and straight couples of all ages seek out tools and support for their relationships from Shannon Batts. Shannon trains ongoingly to be antiracist and is a facilitator and consultant at Race Talks PDX. Transgender, Black Americans, or unhoused clients will find amazing flexibility in counseling rates if you need it because you've been through enough!

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Shannon is the counselor's counselor where couples go to grow a happy marriage, with Gottman research based relationship and marriage help and telehealth video sessions. Clinical hypnosis available as Shannon completed the 100-Hour Comprehensive Training in Applying Clinical Hypnosis in Strategic Psychotherapy intensive by Dr. Michael Yapko. Marriage Counseling, marriage therapy, couple's therapy, couple's coaching, premarital counseling, help for transgender or non binary coming out in marriage, support for spouses of transgender or non binary partners, couples group for transgender partners and cisgender spouses, questioning gender in your marriage, gender affirming referral letters, marriage retreats, marriage workshops, antiracist coaching for engaged couples, antiracism groups for white people, antiracism couples groups, antiracism groups for professionals, custom antiracism groups, marriage affairs or adultery, porn or sex addiction or compulsion in your marriage, couples communication training-whatever you call it-make sure your best marriage counseling choice in CA, or in Portland, Oregon has Advanced Gottman Institute aka Relationship Research Institute training. A Gottman trained therapist like Shannon Batts knows how to move couples from sticky negativity to a garden of new possibilities from the very first couples' session. Services available by Zoom for all of CA and OR. Walking sessions for individual meetings. relationshipgardening.com spousesresourcecenter.com