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Transgender in Couples or Marriage!  Welcome! 
Visit those links at the green buttons below to see in person and online places to find more good things for you!
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You can talk to for free on the phone right now to people at Trans Lifeline if you want to. 
Write this down: 877-565-8860 (US)
877-330-6366 (Canada)
Trans Lifeline is a 501(c)3 non-profit dedicated to the well being of transgender people. The hotline is staffed by transgender people, family, and close allies for transgender people. Extensively trained Trans Lifeline volunteers are ready to respond to whatever support needs members of the community might have.

If you’re feeling hopeless or suicidal, please call
​the Trevor Lifeline at 866-488-7386


Below you will find In Person resources so you can meet up with other real life couple to learn and grow better together, On Line resources, and Real Quotes from real folks figuring out their marriage with or as a Trans mate. If you have others to add, send to Shannon couplescoach@gmail.com.

In Person

Where are the other real life couples navigating transgender changes?
FIND THEM
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Online

Find out more about resources online for transitioning couples.
Learn More
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Real Quotes

Read what real people say who are in marriages that have a trans spouse. Link active soon.
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New Enhanced Relationship Check-Up now available with streamlined 30% less questions, an easy way to reassess progress if we'd like, and plenty of information about strengths and what to repair. Available for $39 (to Gottman) for clients of Approved Member therapist Shannon Batts.
DONATE by clicking here to go to the checkout Square site where you can enter your donation of any amount and support resource redirection of free services to
​marginalized clients. 
Or, Paypal.me/shannonbatts
​Thank you!
 
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How to find a good marriage counselor?  Ask Shannon Batts in Portland, Oregon.  Note from Shannon: Make sure they have advanced training (not just degrees and licenses) with couples, can describe what they learned and how they deliver it to you, and are also HAPPILY married! Can they speak to their privilege or marginalizations and how they impact counseling with you?
Shannon Batts, Licensed Professional Counselor of Portland, Oregon, lic# C2379, and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist for Californians, lic# MFT 34477, is Marriage Friendly, with better than neutrality toward the outcome of your life long love commitment. Shannon Batts is a Portland, Oregon counselor, with advanced skills, education and training in assisting couples (extremely rare among counselors). Lesbian, gay, trans, mixed gender identity, questioning gender, nonbinary, and straight couples of all ages seek out tools and support for their relationships from Shannon Batts. Shannon trains ongoingly to be antiracist and is a facilitator and consultant at Race Talks PDX. Transgender, Black Americans, or unhoused clients will find amazing flexibility in counseling rates if you need it because you've been through enough!


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www.couplesintransition.com and www.spousesgroup.com also arrive here at https://relationshipgardening.com/
so as to direct couples facing gender transition to excellence in support for making it through transition together.

Electronic/internet based communication is not a guarantee of privacy as it is always subject to security breach or hacking. You do maintain the right to email, text or video chat regardless of the risk.
 Shannon is the counselor's counselor where couples go to grow a happy marriage, with Gottman research based relationship and marriage help and telehealth video sessions.  Marriage Counseling, couples' coaching, premarital counseling, help for transgender or non binary coming out in marriage, support for spouses of transgender or non binary partners, couples group for transgender partners and cisgender spouses, questioning gender in your marriage, gender affirming referral letters, marriage retreats, marriage workshops, antiracist coaching for engaged couples, antiracism groups for white people, antiracism couples groups, antiracism groups for professionals, custom antiracism groups, marriage affairs or adultery, porn or sex addiction or compulsion in your marriage, couples communication training-whatever you call it-make sure your best marriage counseling choice in CA, or in Portland, Oregon has Advanced Gottman Institute aka Relationship Research Institute training.  A Gottman trained therapist like Shannon Batts knows how to move couples from sticky negativity to a garden of new possibilities from the very first couples' session.  Services available by Zoom for all of CA and OR. relationshipgardening.com

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